孩子只爱看科幻书籍，不爱看名著，我该怎么办呢？

7月伊始，家长们就在群里询问了很多关于育儿和阅读的问题，由于问题太多，指南君无法一一回答，所以把相关问题进行了整理，便于系统的回答家长们的问题。

下面是指南君整理的四个问题，以及相关的回答。希望对家长们可以有所帮助。

后台有家长问指南君，孩子平时总把看书当任务，只爱看科幻类书籍，不爱看名著，尤其是外国名著。这种情况应该怎么办呢？

1.应该支持孩子看科幻书，然后以科幻书为出发点引导孩子读名著。科幻书也有名著，孩子看科幻书也能接触到一些名著。

2.用孩子能够接受的方式引导孩子去读外国名著。孩子不爱看外国名著，很大程度上是因为孩子缺少这些外国名著相应的知识背景。家长可以通过带孩子看电影的方式，让孩子先去了解外国的生活背景，时代背景，然后再结合书籍。用这样的方式引导孩子去读名著效果更好。

3.家长以身作则，给孩子树立一个好榜样。家长自己先去读，然后再引导孩子去读，与孩子共同分享读名著的乐趣，也是引导孩子读名著非常有效的方法。

期末考试结束后就进入假期了，有家长问指南君，最近孩子经常组团一起玩手机游戏，不写作业，不让玩还发脾气。这种情况应该怎么办？

1.孩子不爱写作业而喜欢玩手机是因为孩子没有学会推迟自己的满足感。写作业是一件没意思的事情，但孩子又必须要去做，这是他的责任，但是孩子没有认识到这一点。而是希望一味满足自己玩手机的愿望，忽略了写作业这个责任。

2.孩子可以通过发脾气的方式争取到一些额外的利益。孩子通过发脾气的方式可以给家长施加压力，进而获得一些他想要的结果。或者用发脾气的方式来表达他愿望未被满足时的愤怒情绪。

3.家长应该学习如何与孩子沟通。孩子的愿望得不到满足就喜欢发脾气，说明在以往教育孩子的过程中，家长的原则性不够。往往是孩子一发脾气，就允许孩子做一些超越原则的事情。家长应该学习如何与孩子沟通，让孩子懂规矩，守原则。为家长推荐一本书《少有人走的路》，里面有关于教育孩子的一些方式方法。

在写作业与玩手机的时间安排上，家长可以帮助孩子做一个时间规划。给孩子规定好，如果能在规定时间内高质量完成作业，就允许他玩一定时间的手机。制定好规则之后，坚决执行，这样孩子才能在玩手机与写作业之间合理分配时间。

有家长问指南君，孩子马上六年级了，怎样通过阅读提高写作能力呢？

不管孩子上几年级，阅读都是写好作文的基础，但并不意味着阅读量够了就一定能写出好的作文。这也需要一定的技巧，我们将它分为三点：

1.孩子读书的数量和质量都要达到一定水平。孩子的阅读数量和阅读质量是写好作文的基础，也是不可或缺的必要条件。

阅读可以开阔孩子的眼界，增加知识储备。但是孩子要想写出自己的体会、自己的故事，必须要有一定的生活体验。从各种高分作文来看，只有孩子将感情融入到自己的作文中，才能打动老师。

做好了以上两点以后，还需要孩子平时多练习，多些东西，比如让孩子养成写日记的习惯，每天练习写作。孩子写得多了，就能把阅读的积累和生活的体验慢慢融会贯通，写作能力自然就提升了。

有些家长想趁着暑假时间充裕，让孩子练习写读书笔记，问指南君这样做可行吗？有没有更好的方法来提高孩子的写作能力？

1.孩子读书的质量不是根据孩子读书的速度来确定的，而是靠家长与孩子交流沟通书中的内容来确定的。

一般来说，孩子读书很快，读得就会不够精细，甚至对某些不适合孩子这个年龄读的书来说，孩子读得慢也不见得就能读懂。对于某些书籍来说，需要孩子有大量的生活体验以及了解这本书的知识背景才能更好的掌握书中内容。

各位家长可以在孩子读完一本书之后，跟孩子交流沟通一下，让孩子与自己分享书中的内容以及他自己的心得体会，这是一种展示他读书成果的方式，让孩子感受到读书的美好，以及读书带给他的满足感。我们同样可以用这种方式来了解孩子掌握了多少，让孩子自己组织语言，展示自己，提升信心。

2.让孩子写读书笔记一定要建立在孩子自愿的基础上。

让孩子写读书笔记之前一定要跟孩子进行沟通，跟孩子表达出我们的真实想法，让孩子理解。如果孩子愿意去做，或者不排斥，我们就可以给孩子订一个目标，比如每周写两篇500字以上的读书笔记。孩子写完之后我们及时给予鼓励，让孩子从写读书笔记之中获得成就感，他才会愿意继续写下去。

千万不要强迫孩子去做这件事情，不然孩子产生反感情绪，就会得不偿失。

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